As my brother has already spent his 2-3 months on an engagement ring, this has been on my mind lately. It feels uncomfortable for me to even bring up, as the issue of an engagement ring is something that affects a girl more directly. Diamonds are currently the standard, and although there is a quiet movement to tweak that (most notably in the spoof De Beers ad in the fake NYT paper), it hasn’t really gotten a discussion going. What say you, friends?
Note: this is a really ballsy poster. I don’t feel comfortable condemning anyone who owns diamonds of any sort. The debate isn’t there yet, like it is for gas guzzlers or fur coats. And even at that point, I wouldn’t automatically condemn people for lifestyle choices. I hope this makes sense.
I’m just happy my girl didn’t want a diamond.
Every little bit helps, it’s the way you live your own life that matters. Be the change you wish to see, set an example, don’t be a hypocrite, all of that.
I’ve never been a large fan of jewelery.. Although I find diamonds are quite beautiful, and I would be flattered if someone thought I was special enough to spend that much money on me… Is it really worth it? I find it would be enough that he wanted to do it. I don’t know if I need proof like this. I don’t even want to know how many people would have to suffer in order for me to have a pretty ring. I think I’ll stick to my cheap jewelry, if any. Just… not worth it it seems. I would like to know more information though.
It is socially irresponsible to own a blood diamond.
3 years ago • Notes